If you are wiling to accept things don’t always go the way you would by going with the flow in unexpected direction you move towards what is to your ultimate benefit and don’t stagnate. Even if you were to stop going with the flow to analyze things you’d realize that though all rivers lead to the sea diversions by obstacles only temporarily give the appearance of things not working out in the current current, be it in deep or shallow water, in a refreshing ambience or overwhelming torrent in a predetermined path through it though it may seem as incomprehensible analyzing the direction your life is taking as it would be attempting to manipulate course of events resulting in interrupted flow much as fluidity of liquids is as continuous as granules of sand in a sand hour glass that may not go the way you want, but do so in line with the force of gravity.